It's much easier to communicate what kind of person you are if you're clear about what you want, and can communicate it well.
Writing a dating profile is much like writing an article or a novel — if I haven't grabbed you by now, you've already swiped left and clicked to the next best thing to read.
On Saturday, author and editor Dave Eggers helped San Franciscans increase their chances of a lifelong match by editing their online dating profiles at a National Independent Bookstore Day event at Books Inc. Eggers became famous with his 2000 autobiography, "A Heartbreaking Work of Staggering Genius," and in 2013 wrote "The Circle," a dystopian novel based loosely on life at Silicon Valley tech companies like Google and Facebook.
End on a "Zing." If you have a joke, save it to be the last part of the answer so that's what people remember.
And if the last question is "why you should message me," make sure you sound inviting so people want to message you.
Be honest with what is a cliché (and try to avoid them). Make your self-summary feel like the first line of a novel.
"Recognize when you're repeating something that you've heard," said Dan, one of the attendees, and then try to eliminate it from your profile. It needs to be the "hook." The "about" section is where you can sound most generic, Eggers told Dan, so make sure you hook people in like you would in a book.People who write "no drama queens need apply" are just saying that they invite drama into their life, so you need to stay well away! Instead, focus on the positives that you want out of a relationship.You'll always get contacts from people who aren't suitable, but when that happens just make use of the block button.If you're finding that you're not getting any contacts on your profile, this could be why.Brush up on your skills by reading a good grammar guide, such as the ones available on Academized or Australian Help.The more they know about what fires you up, the more they can get to know you.