We analyzed over 500,000 first contacts on our dating site, Ok Cupid.
Our program looked at keywords and phrases, how they affected reply rates, and what trends were statistically significant.
Scientifically, this is because it’s a little evil sounding.
It could be that appearing unsure makes the writer seem more vulnerable and less threatening. But either way: men should be careful not to let the appearance of vulnerability become the appearance of sweaty desperation: , 23%)!Mentioning your religion helps you, but, paradoxically, it helps you most if you have no religion. Freaks should remain at the circus, not in your apartment. Have faith.” ― Greg Behrendt, “To be rejected by someone doesn't mean you should also reject yourself or that you should think of yourself as a lesser person. When the affection IS the entertainment, we no longer call it dating. If he can't lay this one stupid brick down, you ain't never gonna have a house baby, and it's cold outside.” ― Greg Behrendt, “Let’s start with this statistic: You are delicious. But I truly believe that the only way you can find out that there’s something better out there is to first believe there’s something better out there. ” ― Greg Behrendt, “You picked a lemon, throw it away lemonade is overrated. Make a space in your life for the glorious things you deserve. As the amount of affection increases, the entertainment can be reduced proportionately. Maybe they set a more casual tone that people prefer, though I have to say, You had me at ‘what’s up’ doesn’t quite have the same ring to it.
There are many words on the effective end of our list like (double yes!
The word "busy" is the relationship Weapon of Mass Destruction.
It seems like a good excuse, but in fact in every silo you uncover, all you're going to find is a man who didn't care enough to call.
No one at Ok Cupid read any actual user messages to compile this post.
“If he’s not calling you, it’s because you are not on his mind. Remember that only ONE person has rejected you at the moment, and it only hurt so much because to you, that person's opinion symbolized the opinion of the whole world, of God.” ― Jocelyn Soriano, tags: breakup, broken, broken-heart, broken-hearted, broken-hearted-quotes, dating, faith, healing, heartache, heartbreak, heartbroken, hope, hurt, hurt-feelings, hurting, hurting-heart, inspirational, life, life-lessons, love, romance “Hey, he's awesome. We got along great." Adrian opened the door to the building we were seeking. It had included things like "I'll give up cigarettes unless I really, really need one" and "I'll unleash romantic surprises every week, such as: an impromptu picnic, roses, or a trip to Paris—but not actually any of those things because now they're not surprises.” ― Richelle Mead, tags: being-single, dating, finding-love, living-life-to-the-fullest, living-your-best-life, love, not-settling, positive-thinking, praying-for-love, relationships, single, single-life, single-woman, singleness, the-single-woman tags: breaking-up, breakups, dating, finding-yourself, fresh-starts, letting-go, love, loving-yourself, moving-on, new-beginnings, not-settling, positive-thinking, relationships, self-improvement, the-end, the-single-woman “I nearly dropped the plate I held. I've made inapproprite suggestions and frequently pushed for nudity. And, if memory serves, you did say you'd give me a fair chance once I let you clean out my trust fund.""I didn't clean it out," I scoffed.” ― Richelle Mead, “Yes, I understand why things had to happen this way. But mere understanding does not chase away the hurt. ” ― Jocelyn Soriano, tags: breakup, broken, broken-heart, broken-hearted, broken-hearted-quotes, dating, faith, healing, heartache, heartbreak, heartbroken, hope, hurt, hurt-feelings, hurting, hurting-heart, inspirational, life, life-lessons, love, romance “I love you.
Don’t be with someone who doesn’t do what they say they’re going to do.