The beauty of internet dating is that it gives women a forum to indicate what they want without it being embarrassing or socially "unacceptable".
This helps to simplify things for men too – before you even send your initial email, you know some things about her and what she is looking for.
She is definitely going to feel awkward with her appearance and will hope you find her attractive.
To give yourself a fighting chance, get some good pictures of yourself.
I am not talking about getting a pro photographer in tow, but rather have a friend with a digital camera take 20-30 pictures of you.
She is more likely to open your email if it catches her attention.
A great way to do this is with a humorous remark about something in her profile.
For the purposes of the first contact, begin a conversation with her by indicating that you share commonalities.
To summarize, in the first email you want to cover these three things: humor, a compliment and make a connection.
by Stephen Nash Many guys nowadays are going online to meet women. There are some great services out there, and we have all heard too many success stories to downplay the potential of meeting great women online. They are the best because they are the most popular.
Being the most popular, they give you the best choice.
So, good luck with the fascinating world of internet dating.
of online dating, but has found it to be a totally frustrating experience? You contact the women you're interested in..you never seem to make contact with them.
This helps to alleviate her anxiety about meeting you.