“Thank her for the date, and wish her well in her search for Mr.Right.” Will you feel like you’re shooting a puppy?So, if you've exchanged a couple flirtatious messages with a potential mate, established a basic foundation of things you have in common and are somewhat assured that it's worth testing the waters with a meet-up, take the plunge and ask her to hang out.
All right, so now you’re all set with a shiny dating profile that’s garnered lots of hits from potential hotties.
You’ve winnowed through the pool and chosen your potential catch.
“On the other hand, if you’re certain you want to see her again, before you part, suggest getting together over the weekend.
Then follow up in less than a day with suggestions for your next date.
Women are told to A) Meet their date in a public, B) Let someone know where they'll be and with whom, C) Bring a cell phone, and D) Have an exit strategy. No matter how hot you are for her, or how hot she seems to be for you online, in person, the first thing she’s going to try to suss out is whether or not you’re to be trusted.
It’s no reflection on you, and it doesn't matter if you spend your Sundays helping out at the local orphanage or old folks home.“You needn’t go so far as to spring for dinner, but a drink in a nice environment, or even lunch, will make a far better impression than coffee at the local Starbucks,” she says.“By treating her with respect, picking up the check, and in general being cool, you’ll win points.Perhaps, but it’s a lot less cruel in the long run than leading her on.Will she analyze it to death, beat herself up, and second-guess every word that came out of her mouth?Joy Davidson, the stakes are generally higher for her.