You are in a sparsely furnished living room with even less décor on the walls; pizza boxes and pop cans are unevenly distributed in various spots in the room.You -- an estrogen carrier -- are an alien in the world of the testosterone breathers. Say nothing…just listen…at first nothing but grunts can be heard, but after a few minutes a word is understood. You think how rude and cold these guys must be to not say anything, but to your surprise, none of the guys seem bothered in the least about the silence. The following is just a sample of what was unveiled.
Few 1 This is where you want to be if he thinks the two of you are a match.So if you want to make it to Category #2…slow it down.Due to the embarrassment and rejection he would simply rather not go through that again.Another guy speaks up and points out that his main reason for not being active in the dating scene was that he felt he needed to be financially set before he could seriously commit to a woman.Reason #1 for not calling you back…You Aren’t His Type We all have images in our head of who we want to spend our lives with A man scans your profile and contacts you if he thinks you fit this picture.
The two of you are on the phone talking the hours away….Casually mentioning the fact that you actually have a dating history isn't cringe-inducing. Actually being into us and texting us after the date and not following some Templar Dating Code of Conduct that doesn't exist. Welcome to 2014, where we can do advanced computations on a portable rectangle and women can drive! If you want to take us swimming with sharks instead of something boring like Pizza Hut.We're not going to get freaked out by a cute text saying you had fun on the date. The bar/restaurant and a movie is a pretty easy way to get to know someone, but if you want to go to the beach instead, we're probably game. My point is: You don't have to start flipping your hair all over and making eyes at us to let us know you're interested.Hold off having sex and that means anything beyond kissing until you think a real relationship is a possibility. It’s the sweetest of most relationships when everything is a fairy tale…date, you are telling him how excited you are to move in with him…asking how soon can it happen Nothing scares a man or turns him off faster then a woman who is already making her life…his life. In the meantime, keep your own apartment and get a life of your own so you have cool things of your own to share with him when you get together.You are not totally sure, but you think the word was…football. Before you know it you can actually understand a sentence or two. The silence is abruptly interrupted with the subject that you have been waiting for since you became a fly on the wall…girls…dating…and what guys are thinking about the two. As he begins to talk you realize that guys ponder way more than emotions.