That’s a somewhat basic, difficult lifestyle that most Filipinas would rather move away from if they can, given the chance. Why are foreigners the more desired option to a Filipina? She is already thinking about babies, having a family that will have needs for food, clothing, housing in the future.It comes down to a common factor that all women take into account when choosing a lifelong mate. So it makes so much sense for a woman to find the most financially stable man she can have. They want a man who will be there, in love with them and not out cheating on her behind her back.
Some of it near the OC, spent time at Newport Beach and later most of my beach time in San Diego at Mission Beach. But meeting and interacting with American Women has absolutely NOTHING to do with how you interact with Filipinas. I won’t reiterate the whole dating process, I’ve already covered that in my Single Life article previously in detail.Lived mostly in what’s known as the Inland Empire so I was in the center of So Cal. What I want to cover with you here are some of the things you might be wondering about what it’s like once you’ve taken that flight across the sea to land in this wonderful country of the Philippines.This is why they prefer mature men as their first choice even though not all older men are necessarily mature or faithful. Getting to know a GOOD Filipina woman is a process. So it is imperative you make your intentions clear and what sort of time frame you are willing to work with. Sometimes we meet up for lunch on a random basis or catch a movie.. We go ‘dutch’ on the expenses, usually one covers dinner and the other the movie and at the end we go our separate ways home and that’s it.Now, when speaking of ‘good, decent’ Filipina women.. They are a fervent, passionate, protective and yes.. Be prepared to be loved, adored and cherished perhaps better than you feel you deserve. Here in the Philippines, something as simple as lunch has a whole different twist here.In regard to fidelity, Filipinas prefer an older expat over a younger one as a husband.
Too many other Filipinas they know have been burned by young expats under 39 who have gotten what they wanted and moved on a day later.And yes, It’s true that there are plenty of great looking women from L. “In California or any other major city like Dallas, New York, Miami, San Francisco, etc.you may see twenty, thirty ‘hot’ looking women as you go about your daily business. Then those first dates, if it even goes past the initial meet-up at Starbucks. Unless you want the convenience factor but then you have to deal with a high number of scammers who are just looking for money. For one thing, foreigners are viewed as more desirable, so you’ve got that going for you right off the bat.I’ll give a good ‘for instance’ from my own personal experience. It’s very common here for Filipinas to refer to a non-relative as their ‘cousin’ or ‘sister’, ‘Auntie’ or ‘Big Brother’.A few years ago, while living on Mactan, I met a lovely young Filipina named Steff. She has two young kids and works two jobs to provide for them. But knowing what I know about the differences in culture, just to be safe I have let her know (’. But to most Filipinas in the smaller cities and especially in the provinces, it’s almost equivalent to taking some girl to Rodeo Drive for dinner on a first date.Beautiful inside and out, what more could a man ask for?