Make sure it’s your space, filling it with things that represent you.
This can spur from something as small as a fear of settling into a relationship, to something as big as trying to run a company with no moral compass.
No matter the scale of the concern, Authenticity is necessary to stabilize your life.
If you allow the Effectiveness process to give you a false sense of control, you enable all of your ideas to spiral into unmanageable chaos or impulsiveness.
So instead, let this process act as a support system.
Effectiveness can sabotage any efforts for slowing down and can entice Ex FPs into thinking they can do anything in the world with no regard for limitation.
Having very idealistic views about what they can accomplish, they tend to fill their to-do lists with as many ‘want-to-have’ experiences to the point of not being physically capable of finishing them all and frequently becoming workaholics by accident.Ex FPs have a blindspot when it comes to this, at least until they’re grounded in a solid value system which will help them focus their attention.Therefore, the better strategy for keeping reigns on their insatiable curiosity is developing Authenticity.Here are her three main values: Never having a solid familial structure, she sought to mend the tattered pieces of family that she had.She reached out to anyone who was related, even if they’d never spoken before.Some of the world’s best actors, musicians, and business owners use Authenticity as a strength.