"Having fun" means what it says - enjoying whatever you mutually decide to do whether it's a walk in the park having an ice cream cone or shooting rapids.
If I found myself genuinely interested in her, I would hang out with her and give her a chance.
Not one minute of those two months was focused exclusively on you, a prerequisite to really evaluating taking a relationship to the next step.
But you really like him and don’t want to leave him because you think maybe tomorrow he will tell you that he wants to date you exclusively.
He didn't say he was looking for a gf, wife, or a relationship. You don't need to do a background check on him and "confirm his identity" for such a simple meet. "Having fun" means what it says - enjoying whatever you mutually decide to do whether it's a walk in the park having an ice cream cone or shooting rapids.
If you're interesting in meeting the guy, arrange to meet him in a public place for morning coffee or whatever and see if you're interested in seeing more of him (and vice versa).
While there’s no magic bullet to prevent heartbreak, there is a good chance that if the relationship ended sooner you would not have fallen so hard.
In the future, from the first date, let the guy know what you want and need: exclusivity. Even if you’ve missed your opportunity to set your boundaries on the first date, do it now.
But when used in that context on an online dating site, is that pretty much always a euphemism for sex? Some guys like to fish and if they can't get you on their hook they will get someone else. I feel like he's saying that he wants to have sex as soon as we meet and even though he's really hot (if his photos are real), I can't really agree to that immediately. " I love having fun, but it just comes off as kind of sexual, and while I find you very attractive, I have to get to know someone before I sleep with them." If he is any kind of a decent guy at all whatsoever, he will be honest.
I feel like he's saying that he wants to have sex as soon as we meet and even though he's really hot (if his photos are real), I can't really agree to that immediately. I know if a girl told me that I would have two actions I would consider.
So you hang in there with anxiety and hope while another month goes by.
Finally he tells you that he doesn’t see a marriage potential here.
After you create your account, you'll be able to customize options and access all our 15,000 new posts/day with fewer ads. This guy on Ok Cupid has sent me three different messages mentioning that he would like to hang out with me and "have some fun." I haven't asked him exactly what he means by "have some fun" yet because I'm trying to verify his identity first before I agree to anything. If they mean going for a walk on the pier, say going for a walk on the pier!