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Many nice, eligible people — people just like you — have herpes and live full, happy lives. DEAR ABBY: I recently moved to a new area of my state.

I like the environment, the cost of living, etc., but there's one problem I don't know how to address. Chattanooga Times Free Press Comments Policy The Chattanooga Times Free Press web sites include interactive areas in which users can express opinions and share ideas and information.

Dear Amy: While I could write a novel on how I feel, I will keep this short and sweet. Treating the mother of the children in the household this way is not something an "awesome dad" does.

My problem is that women in my dating range have been married and had multiple kids and have let their bodies go to waste.attractive and one of the silliest and most thoughtful guys you could ever meet, but at 5 feet 6 inches tall I am thinking my height is causing me to come up short in their eyes (on first impressions). He then made reference to my son from a previous marriage, and said that I am happier when my son comes home, than I am when he (my husband) comes home. Sending profanity-riddled text messages when you are dissatisfied with your birthday gifts isn't the behavior of a mature adult.

Because you are so specific with your desires, trigger happy with first impressions and shallow in your own judgments, the only surefire way for you to determine if your height is causing you to be a dating misfit would be for you to grow a few inches taller. Dear Amy: My husband and I have been married for eight years. He said this was the worst "f" birthday ever and next year he wasn't buying anybody any "f" thing. He has done this before, and it always seems to come out of left field. No matter what inspires this behavior, it is wrong.

Whenever he has issues with me, this is what he does. Dear Worried: Maybe your husband doesn't respect women — or maybe he just doesn't respect you.

I believe in being polite, so I have reached the point of just nodding my head or responding with a yes or no most of the time. Because you consider their questions invasive and you need boundaries, you will have to set them. Notwithstanding the foregoing, you acknowledge that we shall have the right (but not the obligation) to review any content that you have submitted to the Times Free Press, and to reject, delete, disable, or remove any content that we determine, in our sole discretion, (a) does not comply with the terms and conditions of this agreement; (b) might violate any law, infringe upon the rights of third parties, or subject us to liability for any reason; or (c) might adversely affect our public image, reputation or goodwill.

A way to do that would be to tell the questioner that the query is a personal one and you prefer not to share that kind of information with strangers. Moreover, we reserve the right to reject, delete, disable, or remove any content at any time, for the reasons set forth above, for any other reason, or for no reason.

If I meet someone on one of those sites, when is the right time to reveal my problem? In fact, according to the American Sexual Health Association, one in six individuals in the United States between the ages of 14 and 49 has genital herpes (HSV-2).

Because you are hesitant about when to reveal your status, please visit the ASHA website ( It includes a section on relationships, suggestions about when to tell someone, how to talk to a partner, reactions to expect, etc.

Ask him how he would react if someone treated him this way, or if someone else treated you this way.

You should insist that he join you in counseling in order to talk about your mutual frustrations, disappointments, sadness and concerns.

You don't mention how you have reacted to these outbursts.