She's learned that she's great just the way she is and has let go of insecurities she may have had when she was younger. If she is upset, it is for a good reason and you need to pay attention.7. She's learned not to take herself too seriously and knows that it's important to enjoy yourself. She knows she's at her best when she's eating and sleeping well and getting some exercise.20. She knows that people rarely change and isn't going to wait around or nag you, hoping you'll turn into someone else. She is put together and can handle social situations with ease. She won't ruin dinner by talking nonstop about an annoying coworker. She doesn't live on ramen and coffee anymore either.
Without those weightier responsibilities, Millennial boys (or, for the most part, the ones I’ve encountered) are living this suspended fratboy mentality.
Thus, we ladies have looked to older men to fulfill those more grown-up needs.
You know those girls who refuse to date anyone younger than they are, much less anyone their own age? ) And I obviously have the matching theory as to why to go along with it (naturally, it involves being the younger sister).
They have a specific, thought-out reasoning as to why they’re only romantically compatible with guys who are older... Throughout my entire love life -- or whatever you want to call what has been 23 years of going through men, some for longer than others -- I have never so much as lusted after any guy who is younger than I am. Without going too much into my dating career, the main factor in all of my relationships -- significant or otherwise -- has always been the man’s age.
Here’s everything you need to know about dating a 30-year-old in your 20s:1. -- he’s got it all planned out from brunch, to biking, to bonding! Just never refer to his age in a bad light because that is his Achilles Heel; it's what his mother nags him about.
That means no joking about him being an old man or way, way worse… (Recoils in horror.) Heaven forbid you ever, ever, use the f-word! He’s not moving too fast by offering to cook you dinner.If she's dating you, it's because she sees something special in you. Her wardrobe will have high-quality classic staples that fit her well. She isn't going to waste her time dating someone just because he or she is there. She won't show up in an unflattering shade of orange just because it's trendy this week or buy shoes a half size too small because they were on sale. You’re a single, 20 -something girl; you bet your ass you take that nutritious, well-balanced, home-cooked meal made in a well-furnished and clean apartment (neither of which you’ve encountered in weeks), and you embrace it with open arms.Just understand that his cooking you dinner is not the same as you two cooking together.By now, she has her makeup and hair routine down to a streamlined process that she could do in her sleep.