What is also powerfully influential are the ever increasing and empowering lead roles created for women in movies, on TV, and through infinite social media forums.
I can say with some authority that most of us young men have short attention spans so pleasing and retaining us can be twice a challenge – assuming you don’t just want a one nightstand. Nor is there a generic checklist to attracting one – I won’t insult your intelligence my dear reader by pretending there is; just like women, all men are different. If he doesn’t know the importance of the clitoris, teach him. The quickest and most effective way to please a man of any age is to discover what turns him on and then give it to him. However, once you get a fellow in the throes of passion he will probably stop thinking with his head, so I would recommend asking him about what turns him on when his eyes are shut tight from the sexy kisses you’re giving him or when he’s ready to do anything to keep you from stopping.But speaking as a nineteen year old male, I have a range of sex tips based on what I know we would respond to. As an older woman he may even see you as a teacher of sorts, I implore you to take advantage of this. It’s worth noting that if you’re having a casual, one-off encounter and you’re able to give him exactly what he wants he will most likely be back more.Drawing on the advice I’ve already given, the most erotic thing a someone can ever do for their partner is recognise their fetishes and fantasies, accepting them and then enacting them to the best of one’s ability.If he has a fantasy about being spanked by a teacher – act it out, if you have a fantasy about being rescued by a sexy young firefighter and his massive hose – act it out.Remember, he wants to take you all the way, if not for your pleasure but for his own bragging rights, unless he’s a sadist who likes to see a woman unfulfilled – in which case, get out of there if the feeling isn’t mutual.
4) Confidence is key No matter what you see in the mirror, regardless of how insecure you may feel sometimes over your body, he will only see a sexy, mature lady.
Below are just nine of my tips for having a fun and exciting physical relationship with a younger man. Like how in sex tip 1 you investigate his fetishes be sure to tell him yours so he can please you meritoriously. Alternatively if you’re looking at a long term relationship knowing his biggest turn on can only make you both stronger together and he will be more comfortable with you. Men are just as prone to perpetual insecurity as women, and young men are especially susceptible because they’ve got more to prove!
Once he satisfies you effectively make him feel special about doing it as seen in sex tip 2 to motivate him to keep it up. Just how young women are under a constant barrage of self-consciousness inducing advertising and pop culture young men are under a lot of pressure to measure up to a minimum standard of male beauty and also in socio-economic standings.
Because many women work full-time and raise families it enables men who have grown up with this norm to feel less threatened by female success.
For many men, a woman in a position of power is a normal, familiar circumstance can help younger men be eager, open, willing and appreciative of the wisdom, the guidance and decisive nature that mature, successful women can offer.
If you as a more experienced partner can make him feel good about making you feel good he’ll have the confidence and the drive to get stuck in (ahem) and maybe even try new unusual things with you.